The Musical Family: Why Parents Should Learn an Instrument With Their Children

Fall is when children return to school, meet newpunishment! If getting your child to practice is as
friends, and take on new challenges. Adults canhard as getting them to clean their room, you
enjoy this exciting time of learning and growth ascould lead by example and begin practicing on
well.your own. Your child will most likely want to join
I encourage all parents to learn music with theirin, saying, "no, Mom, this is how it goes!"
children. As a violin teacher I know it's the bestWhen a parent shows commitment to the
way for a child to learn and remain dedicated topractice routine the child will soon follow. The child
their instrument and for the parent to be involvedwill improve much faster and feel more confident
in a constructive manner.in his/her abilities. Providing a positive influence will
Children learn best by example. If their parentshelp the parent feel more supportive and
say, "I have no musical talent," kids are bound tonurturing, not like a policeman!
live the same fate. However, when you choosePractice can become a family project. Weekly
to learn music from scratch you prove "if I canfamily concerts are an excellent activity
do it, you can too!" In six years there has beenemotionally, musically and socially. By playing for
only 1 parent/child duo of mine that quit.an audience the musicians step out of their
Parents pay more attention in the lesson andcomfort zones and overcome nervousness. The
remember things the child may have forgotten orweekly goal of a concert teaches your child the
didn't understand. You can help your child when hevalue of practice, dedication and setting goals. The
she runs into difficulty and continue teaching atfamily as a whole becomes more involved and
home. Plus, he/she won't get away with fibbing,supportive by offering the players encouragement
"teacher said I don't need to practice!"and feedback. What better way to spend time as
Routine practicing is of utmost importance as aa family?
musician. Unfortunately, for many childrenI wish you and your family a fulfilling and
practicing feels like grueling torture or cruelsuccessful new season of learning.