The Best way of relaxation for sick mindset and body

Here are some certain advices:which causes it.
Learn to relax. Relax the mind especially byBreathe softly and unhurriedly, and do not try to
cultivating a sense of humour. Do not meet lifethink about anything, not even about nothing. But
with a tense mind. You have not mastered thejust let your mind go. That is real relaxation. Take
art of living till you have learned to play with life,it easy. Look at things just as children do, naturally
to let your energies run freely and easily inwithout anxiety, without wanting to embrace all
meeting its demands. Fix a time when you dropthe details. Otherwise your mind will be producing
business cares, and keep to it. Scientists haveideas which will cause tension and strain. Hear near
been studying the effect of laughter on humanor distant noise. Retain consciousness of it for a
beings and have found that it has a profound andfew seconds. Or even notice the lack of noise.
instantaneous effect on virtually every importantOpen up the sense of hearing without forced
organ in the human body.attention. Repeat these acts five times each hour
 Laughter reduces health-sapping tensions relaxesof the day. With these exercises you can calm
the tissues and exercises the most vital organs. Itirritation and hypersensitivity to sound.
is said that laughter even when forced results in a Surprisingly in large number of us, has a tired
beneficial effect on us both mentally andand plaintive sound. Some of us are really tired
physically. Next time you feel nervous and jittery,but far more of us are not tired at all, or would
indulge in a good laugh. Laughter is the bestnot be tired at all unless we had got into a
medicine for a long and happy life. He, who laughs,wretched trick of feeling tired, by following the
lasts long.prevalent habits of vocalisation and expression.
By you organizing our work and our time tableThe more plaintive you sound, the more plaintive
we can organize  our mind also, when youyou feel. Colour too has a great psychological
organize your mind  a sense of power will comeeffect on us. To be in the midst of glaring colours
to you, and you will soon wonder at the easeis very tiring. Patients recuperate more readily
with which you can handle responsibilities. Yourwhen there are pastel colours around them. When
capacity for work will increase, so it  will pleasurea crisis is past and we can afford to relax. We
you, in what you are doing.usually say that we can breathe with more ease.
Life 1s more than meal and body more thanThe other way about, if we can breathe easier,
raiment,' goes the saying. So if there is anythingwe won't get so tense. It was Voltaire who said.
persisting in your mind at the close of the day's'A good deal of human illness could be cured by
work, leave it alone and say, 'I shall deal with youbreathing.' Full breathing, or deep breathing as we
tomorrow, not now, and then give yourself tocall it, if done smoothly and rhythmically, has a
things that are useful and pleasant.relaxing effect and is good for health. But forced
The only way to relax mind and body is to livedeep breathing has the contrary effect. Relaxed
the right way and have the right attitude.smooth, self rhythmical deep breathing helps relax
Don't keep trying to do too much.the entire body. When your eyes feel strained
Don't try to do too much at once.and the print you are reading appears blurred
Don't be too ambitious.close your eyes take a deep breath and let it out
Don't envy other people.relaxed. Now open your eyes, and you will see
Don't expect other people to agree with you andthe print clearly.
do things your way.A warm bath followed by a cold one, is a great
Don't expect everybody to like you.help to relax the entire body. It will also help you
Butto sleep better.
Give yourself sufficient time.Leisure and relaxation go hand in hand.
Have sensible ambitions. Leisure is a mental and spiritual attitude and not
Be reasonable in what you expect from others.simply the result of external factors like Spare
Be sensible in the way you live.time a holiday a week-end or vacation. Over and
Plan the day ahead.above everything else, leisure is a condition of
Allow yourself a quiet period every day. soul.  Some people think they are busy when
Twenty minutes of passive relaxation soon afterthey are only nervous, or rather, when, they are
a difficult flight made fliers feel quite fresh;mentally maladjusted. It is more important to rest
rhythmic relaxation prevented unpleasant mind.well than to rest long. When you feel the need of
Learn to relax your body, entirely. That is one ofrest,
the best ways toward mental relaxation. FormRaise your feet to hip-level and rest for ten
the habit of relaxing mentally by not caring forminutes. That will refresh you very much. Yoga
one way or the other after you have done yourpractices calm our over-wrought nerves relax our
work. If you form this habit and practice it everymuscles and revolve our organs’ and nerve
clay, you need never fear of harming yourself bycentres.
working too hard. You'll find, to your surprise, thatPranayama (the breathing exercise) brings
you can work harder than ever, that you haveOxygen and energy to evenly cell, cleanses the
tapped energies you never suspected to exist.organism by burning up the waste products,
Form this habit and you'll never have to worryexpels the toxins; while relaxation· guards against
about burning yourself out.neurasthenia and insomnia. Relaxation of the body
The increasing mental and physical tension andgoes hand in hand with relaxation of the mind.
strain is the greatest enemy of our society. ItThus he (the relaxed man) knows how to conjure
must learn to relax if it must survive. Relaxationup mental pictures of peaceful, calm and tranquil
means simply the prudent use of our mental andsituations.
physical faculties so as to achieve optimumThe obstacles of serenity are not external. They
efficiency and skill. Whoever knows how to restlie within us. 'If we acquire the art of proper
at the right time will double his efficiency and notself-love we free ourselves from shallow fears
waste his health? Therefore enliven yourself withand learn honestly to face grief and to transcend
amusements which will arouse enthusiasm andit; if we free from immaturity and boldly shoulder
prevent depressing memories.adult responsibility; if we appraise and accept
Let your holidays be associated with great publicourselves as we really are, how then can we fail
events. In using leisure hours it is always better toto create a good life for ourselves.
participate actively in some sports or recreationalThere are a few very important points for
pastime, rather than be a passive spectator, yourelaxed living: ----
can profit more by playing table-tennis for half an 1. A cold or warm bath after a day's hard work
hour than by watching a cricket or tennis match2. Physical exercise
for two hours. Playing a musical instrument for3. Cultivation of a constructive hobby
fifteen minutes yields more pleasure through self4. Regulation of diet
expression than seeing a two-hour film show. A5. A kindly heart and a hearty laugh
real vacation should rekindle our inner fire. Yet 6. Free social service and love towards your
minutes of vacationing may do us better than afamily friends and neighbours
month-long vacation. Half an hour of spontaneous7. Avoiding the use of tranquillisers sedatives and
self-expression in talking about a hobby with atoxic substances
friend who shares the same interest can refresh8. Sound Sleep. 
us, the secret of relaxation is that if we want toTry these eight steps to relaxed living and you will
relax, we must concern ourselves with the meansalways feel at ease, enjoy life.
and not the end. What we have to do is not toGood effects of relaxation:
try to relax but to release muscles and muscleOne of the most important steps in t relaxation is
groups. This is the easiest and most effectiveto learn to think generously and truthfully.
method. Do not try to relax. If you strive andThoughts of ill-will, of guilt, of fear produce tumult
strain to relax the effort will only increase tension.in the mind. On the contrary, thoughts of good will
But a relaxed attitude, which we call patience ortrust confidence and goodness create a spiritual
calmness, is very necessary. Start the process ofcalm and a bodily relaxation. Since thoughts tend
relaxation in the muscle and then immediately shiftto become automatic, healthful and healing
your attention to another muscle. The first musclethoughts deliberately repeated with persistent
will automatically continue its relaxation. So that aregularity will become natural and constantly fill the
comfortable position while standing, sitting or lyingmind with peace.
down. When you feel tension, stop your action