I Want Confidence

I have to hire many people to accomplish what Ionly come to those who believe in themselves).
do. Naturally, I want good, clean, straight-forwardThese are things that may never show up on a
resumes. I want to see what the applicant hasresume, but which tell me something about your
done and, by extension, what he or she might bebelief in yourself; your discipline, your faith in your
able to do for me. From my perspective, it's allown future. Those are the kinds of people any
about what I need in order to grow my business.employer should be seeking.
Most applicants look at it from the otherAnd don't be afraid to say it clearly: "I believe that
perspective: what will the application and interviewI am the right person for this position, and I look
process do for them? Too often, it seems to me,forward to the opportunity to prove it to you."
they look at the resume, the application, and theBe Confident in Person
cover letter as the end of the process. Well, forWhether you're on the phone or in a face-to-face
them - and for me - it is only the beginning. Ifmeeting, be confident that you are the one.
you don't look at it in the same way, then it willBefore a phone or personal interview, look into a
be the end.mirror and tell yourself why you believe you will
And the most important item that never showssucceed in the interview; why you will get the
up is confidence. It's not educational experience;job; why you will prove to everyone that your
not work experience; not references. Most of theare the right choice for this position. In a way,
people who apply for work have those thingsyou are your own coach, giving yourself a great
already in place. What they often fail to show mepep talk before the game.
on paper or in the interview is the confidenceBut it is not a game; the interview is serious
they have in themselves to get the job, do thebusiness. That's why you must have good
job and grow in the job.reasons to support your belief in yourself. "I
If you bring your confidence and your faith inwant," "I really need," and "I've been rejected so
yourself, most employers will see exactly whatmany times," are not the reasons you're looking
they are seeking in you. Then, all the weaknessesfor, and they are not the reasons that will
and shortcomings on your resume will disappear.persuade an employer. Remember, the person
Lack of experience, mediocre grades in school,who is hiring has needs, too; the needs for a
youth - all the things that you think of ascompetent, reliable, honest, dedicated worker who
disadvantages - will be diminished.believes in his or her ability to do the job, and to
Be confident on Paperbe a part of the team.
The first place you can demonstrate confidence isSo convince yourself of your worth and your
in a cover letter. I'm sure you've heard that theability. Be confident on paper and in person.
cover letter tells the employer those importantBelieve in yourself, and let your self-confidence
things that a resume can't communicate. Well, thecome through in the way you sit, the way you
most important is your belief in yourself. If youanswer questions, and in the kinds of questions
don't believe in yourself, why should I believe thatyou ask. Show that you're the one who is looking
you're the one for the job I have in mind?forward to joining this organization.
So, when you "fill in the gaps" in your resume, beAnd believe it; don't try to fake it. If you don't
sure that you explain why you are sure that youhave the confidence you need, then go out and
can do this job; even more importantly, that youget it. Get more education; get wider experience
are the right person for this job. Tell me howby volunteering or taking on extra jobs; get
experiences that don't show up on the resumeinvolved in church or community activities to test
help you have confidence in yourself. Some lifeyour ability to work with others and get the
experiences that show personal confidence and ainterpersonal experience you need.
health self-esteem are:But, more than anything else believe in you. If you
Membership or leadership in scouting or youthdo, your confidence will come through in every
groups Success on sports teams Accomplishmentaspect of your writing and speaking. You will be
of a personal goal, such as running a marathon, orshowing me and any other employer that you are
building a soapbox racer. Playing a musicalthe one.
instrument (the long years of practice and learningGood luck!