| Happiness is difficult to attain, it is something that | | | | whom you have frequent contact, maintaining |
| we cannot buy by money nor can borrow from | | | | good friendship brings happiness, sharing happy |
| somebody, people live with different targets and | | | | moments with friends can double the joy for you |
| purposes in life, but to achieve those target we | | | | and your friend. There is give and take among |
| need peace of mind and happiness, usually it is | | | | friends, which means if today you invite your |
| difficult to understand the reasons for consecutive | | | | friend for you party, next time they will invite |
| failure, poor performances or loss of good people | | | | you, this way the chain does not break and the |
| around us, if we deeply contemplate we will find | | | | happiness lights are on. |
| that we are lacking happiness in life which is | | | | 6. Care for your family: Family is where you get |
| putting negative impression on our attitudes and | | | | birth, grow up and age. Love, intimacy, |
| performance that put out undesirable results. The | | | | dependency, care and lot more are found only |
| following points can help in adopting habits and | | | | when families are made, a single man may not |
| building attributes to live a happy life. | | | | experience different faces of life unless he lives in |
| 1. Believe in destiny: Destiny rules; we should | | | | a family. We live with our parents, brothers and |
| welcome what destiny brings us. Expressions like | | | | sisters in a family, that's how we are connected, |
| "I will change my destiny" or "that will change | | | | to maintain this connection and live life with these |
| your destiny" are all exaggerations that are | | | | none found elements of life we have to care for |
| logically denied since nothing can change our | | | | them. Help them when they need it and enjoy |
| destiny. As we are incapable to see our future so | | | | best and blessed moments with them, so then |
| we can not perceive what destiny brings us the | | | | you can say life is good. |
| next minute, usually people are called lucky | | | | 7. Choose an art: choosing an art like painting, |
| because their destinies brought them lots of | | | | learning to play musical instruments, photography |
| prosperities and based on their prosperous record | | | | or similar arts can keep you entertained all the |
| people know them as lucky. Always wish for the | | | | time, it is fun to have or learn an art, gradually |
| best and believe in your destiny, do not blame a | | | | your creation will change to recreation when you |
| whole day because of a small incident early in the | | | | have some refined results in hand, you can share |
| morning which lasted for few minutes, wait to | | | | those with people and enjoy your work. |
| see, there are still lots of good awaiting your way. | | | | 8. Laugh out loud: even if it is a small joke, give it |
| 2. Stay in present: the fear of future can | | | | a big smile, researchers have found that laughter |
| eradicate your happy present moments, and past | | | | eliminates stress, reduces potential heart disease |
| which is gone long ago can put negative effects | | | | and brings joyous moments. If you know |
| on your present. Furnish your present by involving | | | | something funny or hilarious share it with others |
| yourself in best things to do, eliminate any | | | | and laugh a while together, laughing with someone |
| worrying memories since those are ones that can | | | | else can maximize the fun and happiness |
| definitely reverse your mind back into failing | | | | generated from that particular situation. |
| situations, future is to come, so let it come and | | | | 9. Listen to elders/take advice: even though |
| be hopeful that it will come along with a bunch of | | | | technology has improved so much and youths |
| happiness and success. | | | | never care for what is passed but experience can |
| 3. Help others: there is no religion which prohibits | | | | teach you lot than what you try to learn, asking |
| helping others, and based on research and studies | | | | elders for some advice regarding issues can give |
| those with helping attitude are more likely to be | | | | you a great idea of how to find solutions for |
| happy than ones who are less helpful. Helping | | | | problems, obviously when problems are solved or |
| others result in mutual satisfaction, a sense of | | | | you have the potential to solve them you can |
| relaxation and comfort forms when we see | | | | feel pleased. Elders have witnessed different |
| somebody happy after receiving help. Whether it | | | | incidents, ups and downs of life, there is no doubt |
| is a big one or small, helps are always deeply | | | | everyone faces problems in life and so do the |
| appreciated. | | | | elders whom we think may not realize what we |
| 4. Stay alone for a while everyday: a busy day | | | | see today, but the fact is that similar problems |
| with people around, communicating with different | | | | are everywhere around the world and majority |
| groups, answering phone calls, chatting with | | | | of those are solved through different suggestions |
| friends and so on keep our brain so much loaded | | | | from different people, best source for those |
| that we will not even notice how tired our brain is | | | | suggestions are elders. |
| being involved in those activities. As physically we | | | | 10. Love and worship God: God is who knows |
| need rest so we do mentally. Find somewhere | | | | what to do next. The good servant under his |
| restful, you can even lock your room for some | | | | Lord's guidance and protection can face challenges |
| minutes and stay alone, do not think about | | | | of life and reach where he thinks he can't. God is |
| anything, keep your eyes closed and feel like you | | | | the best leader for us and best provider, so if we |
| got no responsibilities at all, if not for real but that | | | | love Him and worship Him we can be blessed with |
| short while the sense of ease from all aspects | | | | affluence and bliss from Him. Relying only on God |
| can generate positive results. | | | | can redeem us from sorrows, and free us from |
| 5. Make friends: choose your friends carefully with | | | | any disappointments and unhappiness. |